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My perspective 2
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<p>I believe friendship after a break up is impossible. Especially for the one that gets “dumped.” Somehow he or she turns against his or her EX and creates hatred. This type of abhorrence erupts from loving him or her too much. At this point, the subjects have both opposite affection – love and hate. The person then enters this stage where he or she suffers from agony, mainly mental pain. The question “was it love she shared or did she played me?” keeps on popping in mind. And when they rally one may experience so much tension, and just want to leave the scene. His or her voice puts you in so much perplexity and annoys you in the most painful way. Sometimes it’s really hard to find someone that is willing to listen to all the love you once shared and your suffering. Not everyone could endure listening to someone talk about the same lines or words over and over again. How can one still be friends with this sort of feeling? There is no way of escaping this process; unlike you don’t love him or her. Why? Because this is how the game of love is played. Once you’re in … you’re in forever. There is one way to break free from this depression and it’s to transfer all the past love to another target. And all the past would just stay and remain as memories, slowly washing away. Sigh… Love is damn ambiguous - too much to explain, too hard to comprehend, and most of all too painful to control.
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i feel you man. friendship is hard too qain habbened too mee and myh x. i quess im okai wid id. anihows yesh i did soo nowun cood rite click. tee hees <33 . habbiee belated 4th dann. hoped you had a qoot wun =]
ReplyDeleteWow, you're pretty deep. You know, you're right, love is painful. If there is anything I know, it has to be that relationships can take a wrong turn, but don't reap in the past and live in its treachery. Maybe you have just made the unconscously mistake of creating a perfect portrait of the former spouse and have been chasing an illussion the whole time. Therefore you never expected to get hurt by the one you cared for most. Or, you can be a better person by trying to prevent the event of breaking up in the first place if you care about her enough. Remember, you need to learn to understand that comprehending the solution and stating it into words is one thing, but it's another to apply it to oneself. Instead of sharing your past experience with another probable girlfriend or bf, make new experiences to which both of you can share and look back at. Thats whats important. Live in real time, not the past. and besides, don't over analyze what "LOVE" is, "its just elusive", the only way to understand it is to experience it. Its not the bad experiences and feeling you got out of it, its the good experiences you take with you.
ReplyDeletelove problem eh??
ReplyDeleteno one knows what is really possible or impossible in life, its all in one's will to desire, to try and to race against the possiblilities... as for your case, maybe both of u shouldn't be so stuborn... you only get for what you have gived, think about it
ReplyDeleteyes....love is complicated....but what can u do???......what can u do???......absolutely nothing......just....let time tell......eprops....
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